^^^^^^^THIS. SO HARD. SO MUCH. THIS ^^^^^^^
“It can’t be any more obvious that we live in a patriarchal society if ‘feminist’ is a bad word.”
“Eight percent of college men have either attempted or successfully raped. Thirty percent say they would rape if they could get away with it. When the wording was changed to “force a woman to have sex,” the number jumped to 58%. Worse still, 83.5% argue that “some women look like they are just asking to be raped.”
—Margo Paine, Ph.D Body Wars
I recall seeing a debate about whether the gender pay gap was “a nonexistent problem” flit across my screen. Add this chart, courtesy of Aaron Carroll, to the dispiriting stack of evidence pointing to a very real problem.
The chart is based on a study published in Health Affairs on starting salaries for medical residents leaving training in New York State from 1999-2008. Every speciality save Gastroenterology and General Surgery shows lower salaries for women doctors. What’s more:
But, it’s possible that other factors come into play. Maybe all the women chose jobs with fewer hours, or in cheap areas. So the authors conducted analyses that looked at average mean salary while controlling for the forty-five categories of specialty training, race/ethnicity, age, citizenship, foreign medical graduate status, whether graduates had an MD or OD degree, educational debt, Health Professional Shortage Area work obligation, practice type, location type, patient care hours, and year. Did that get rid of the discrepancy?
[and the gap is getting worse] It’s risen from $3600 in 1999 to over $16,000 in 2008.
As problematic as Jezebel can sometimes be, this is a pretty astute observation and a decent article.
This quote is also extremely relevant:
In the rare instance when a girl is depicted as a “nerd”, she is usually little more than a prom queen wearing a too-tight Sega t-shirt (possibly paired with knee socks of some sort). Which is apparently all this character needs in a girlfriend: for her to be hot in the specific way he wants her to be hot with no expectations beyond that.
The first is that true gender equality is actually perceived as inequality. A group that is made up of 50% women is perceived as being mostly women. A situation that is perfectly equal between men and women is perceived as being biased in favor of women.
And if you don’t believe me, you’ve never been a married woman who kept her family name. I have had students hold that up as proof of my “sexism.” My own brother told me that he could never marry a woman who kept her name because “everyone would know who ruled that relationship.” Perfect equality - my husband keeps his name and I keep mine – is held as a statement of superiority on my part."
I find myself shocked when women make up more then 1/3 of reoccurring characters :/
this quote is so amazing omgggggg
This is spot on. For a patriarchal society, equality is threatening and assigned as the “real sexism” because women aren’t “in their place” where they “belong.” It challenges the system by asserting the notion of women as equal human beings and not property, and frankly, the fact that people have been unwittingly brainwashed to perceive the world under these terms pisses me the fuck off.
Before my parents divorced, my mom kept her maiden name after marrying my dad, and my whole childhood people (adults) would ask me if my parents were separated/divorced. When I told them no, they would get all indignant and ruffled and ask why my mom kept her maiden name, as if it was a personal offense to them. LOL They would become even more angry when I simply answered, “Because she wants to.”
Sadly this is true.
only if we have the same lifeeeeeee.